Besides habits and hobbies, my life is pretty boring. Dating has been a recent addition to fill the void—unfortunately, it makes it more endless. As I told my boss last night, “I should explore Korea more on the weekends instead of just dating.” I was looking for someone special to travel with, but the girls I find just want to drink and have fun. The age difference makes their mindset difficult for me to embrace—where I was then—now that I’m a few years older, I want something calmer, more emotional and down to earth.